Ramadan and Motherhood: Finding Balance

As Ramadan draws near, we feel the excitement of fasting, prayer, and spiritual renewal—but for many of us, it’s also a time of balancing motherhood. The early mornings of Suhoor, the late-night Taraweeh prayers, and the daily tasks of raising children can feel overwhelming. Yet, with a little intention and mindfulness, we can create a Ramadan that nourishes both our souls and our role as mothers.

Prioritising Your Spiritual Growth

As mothers, we often put others first, but Ramadan is a chance to prioritise our own spiritual growth too. Set realistic goals—whether it’s shorter sessions of Dhikr or reading small parts of the Qur’an during the day. Quality over quantity is key. Even the smallest acts of worship, like a moment of gratitude or a prayer in your living room, are deeply valuable.

Involving Your Family

Ramadan is a time to involve our families in worship. Let your children help with the preparations for Suhoor and Iftar, teaching them the significance of fasting and breaking their fast together. These shared moments strengthen family bonds and make Ramadan even more meaningful.

Self-Care Is Essential

Fasting while caring for your family can be draining, so don’t forget to take care of yourself. Listen to your body and rest when needed. Short moments of self-care, like stretching or a quick nap, can keep your energy up and help you maintain balance between worship and motherhood.

Embrace Imperfection

Ramadan doesn’t need to be perfect. It’s easy to feel like we’re failing when things don’t go as planned, but Allah values intention, not perfection. Embrace the chaos, the simplicity, and the beauty of being a mother during this blessed month.

Conclusion: A Ramadan of Connection

This Ramadan, focus on quality moments—whether in prayer, family time, or self-care. Let’s embrace the balance of faith and motherhood, knowing that every small act of devotion counts. May Allah bless us with strength and peace this Ramadan.


If this resonated with you, share it with other sisters on the same journey. Let’s support each other this Ramadan.

Aya Mohamed Aka - Ukhti Sister
Aya Mohamed Aka - Ukhti Sister

Aya Mohamed aka Ukhti Sister is an entrepreneur, health professional, and Muslim woman blogger based in London, UK. Her biggest hobbies include reading and writing, and she enjoys sharing the knowledge and insights she gains through her learning and experiences. Dedicated to empowering fellow women, she shares spiritual reflections, life experiences, and advice for living with purpose. Passionate about family, community, and social activism, Ukhti inspires others to embrace their faith and live with strength and positivity.